Reflection # 8
“It’s A Girl documentary”
Description
My friend Amelia is the community engagement class informed me that Brock University was showing the documentary “It’s a girl” I had seen previews for this back home in Toronto, along with people on the sidewalks downtown trying to spread the word. We had both wanted to see this film, so this was the perfect opportunity. Us two along with two of our other friends hopped on the bus on Friday night around 6:30pm, to make it for the 7pm start time. As we were sitting in the lecture hall thistle 247, I was looking around at the amount of people there for the viewing, and I was presently surprised by the amount of older people who had come to see the film. An older couple in front of us didn't have an affiliation with the school, but they attending because they were excited about this documentary. As the lights dimmed and the film started, it became very quiet, it was completely silent. I believe this was out of respect for the women throughout the film, they were sharing with us the emotional and touching stories of their lives. For these women to talk about aborting and even murdering their baby girls must have been extremely difficult, even though they believed it was in the best interest for the girls. The film was hard to follow at the beginning because the subtitles weren't turned on, so we only knew what was truly being said when the narrator was talking in English.
The film explored the struggles that people faced in India and China. While sitting there hearing that baby girls weren't favored, and were killed because they weren't needed, I thought to myself how lucky I am to live in Canada. Being a twin to a boy, I wouldn't have survived if I lived in India or China. It was quite distributing listening to the ways in which they kill the child after it is born, by drenching a cloth in water and holding it over their face so they could no longer breathe. The story that stood out to me was about an Indian lady, who was having female twins and her husband and mother wanted her to abort, and left her in a room locked up. She ran away and delivered her twins prematurely, and is now the poster face for Indian women in walks against selective abortion. The term gendercide was mentioned throughout the film, and this is the killing of a certain gender purely based on being female. Males were thought to carry on the family name and take after parents in old age, which I knew before the film, but it also explained the idea that they gained a wife and the money form her parents, and a daughter was only a burden as she would get married and give money to the fiance Overall, I really enjoyed watching and seeing the perspectives from the other side of the world, it made me really appreciate where I live.
Examination
Ivan Illich’s article “to hell with good intentions” he argues that when North American students take “Mission-Vacations” it is offensive to Latin America, that for North American wealthy students it is just the thing to do. He believes that when we go to ‘help’ the Latin Americans we are pretentiously imposing ourselves on them. This relates to the OCCLO of “it’s a girl” documentary because I think we have North American ideas about what is right and wrong. The issues that China and India are facing, we are the first to judge and think that we are helping by spreading the word when really in the end judging them and criticizing them for making decisions because of the culture and society they live in. The limitation on having children, and the want to have a boy because society has taught them that, causes these individuals to make these poor decisions of gendercide. Also in Ivan’s article while in Latin America, we would be socializing with people close to us, according to class and language, not the actual people who need help because they can’t speak our language and we can’t speak theirs. This shows that if we were to visit China and India we could make our own assumptions about the women there from our own perspective, we are quick to judge. This article, along with the documentary don’t really discuss if we truly can help these people, if more people are to be educating on both these topics than I think better changes would occur.
Articulation of Learning
I have learned that we in Canada are extremely privileged because issues such as gendercide don’t occur. Women are way more respected and aren't taken for granted in the western side of the world. China and India both have huge overpopulation problems, which makes them favor males over females, to carry on the family name and bring resources to the family. This brings many implications along with it, such as the ratio for male to female.
“It’s A Girl documentary”
Description
My friend Amelia is the community engagement class informed me that Brock University was showing the documentary “It’s a girl” I had seen previews for this back home in Toronto, along with people on the sidewalks downtown trying to spread the word. We had both wanted to see this film, so this was the perfect opportunity. Us two along with two of our other friends hopped on the bus on Friday night around 6:30pm, to make it for the 7pm start time. As we were sitting in the lecture hall thistle 247, I was looking around at the amount of people there for the viewing, and I was presently surprised by the amount of older people who had come to see the film. An older couple in front of us didn't have an affiliation with the school, but they attending because they were excited about this documentary. As the lights dimmed and the film started, it became very quiet, it was completely silent. I believe this was out of respect for the women throughout the film, they were sharing with us the emotional and touching stories of their lives. For these women to talk about aborting and even murdering their baby girls must have been extremely difficult, even though they believed it was in the best interest for the girls. The film was hard to follow at the beginning because the subtitles weren't turned on, so we only knew what was truly being said when the narrator was talking in English.
The film explored the struggles that people faced in India and China. While sitting there hearing that baby girls weren't favored, and were killed because they weren't needed, I thought to myself how lucky I am to live in Canada. Being a twin to a boy, I wouldn't have survived if I lived in India or China. It was quite distributing listening to the ways in which they kill the child after it is born, by drenching a cloth in water and holding it over their face so they could no longer breathe. The story that stood out to me was about an Indian lady, who was having female twins and her husband and mother wanted her to abort, and left her in a room locked up. She ran away and delivered her twins prematurely, and is now the poster face for Indian women in walks against selective abortion. The term gendercide was mentioned throughout the film, and this is the killing of a certain gender purely based on being female. Males were thought to carry on the family name and take after parents in old age, which I knew before the film, but it also explained the idea that they gained a wife and the money form her parents, and a daughter was only a burden as she would get married and give money to the fiance Overall, I really enjoyed watching and seeing the perspectives from the other side of the world, it made me really appreciate where I live.
Examination
Ivan Illich’s article “to hell with good intentions” he argues that when North American students take “Mission-Vacations” it is offensive to Latin America, that for North American wealthy students it is just the thing to do. He believes that when we go to ‘help’ the Latin Americans we are pretentiously imposing ourselves on them. This relates to the OCCLO of “it’s a girl” documentary because I think we have North American ideas about what is right and wrong. The issues that China and India are facing, we are the first to judge and think that we are helping by spreading the word when really in the end judging them and criticizing them for making decisions because of the culture and society they live in. The limitation on having children, and the want to have a boy because society has taught them that, causes these individuals to make these poor decisions of gendercide. Also in Ivan’s article while in Latin America, we would be socializing with people close to us, according to class and language, not the actual people who need help because they can’t speak our language and we can’t speak theirs. This shows that if we were to visit China and India we could make our own assumptions about the women there from our own perspective, we are quick to judge. This article, along with the documentary don’t really discuss if we truly can help these people, if more people are to be educating on both these topics than I think better changes would occur.
Articulation of Learning
I have learned that we in Canada are extremely privileged because issues such as gendercide don’t occur. Women are way more respected and aren't taken for granted in the western side of the world. China and India both have huge overpopulation problems, which makes them favor males over females, to carry on the family name and bring resources to the family. This brings many implications along with it, such as the ratio for male to female.
I learned this when the documentary
addressed the issue of the three words parents dread hearing are “it’s a girl”
this is what the film was named for. The society still follows traditional
roles, which causes problems to occur for females in both China and India.
This learning matters because women’s
rights have come so far in the western world, but yet on the other side of the
world problems still exist surrounding gender issues. The killing of one gender
is a genocide, which is not right and therefore something needs to be done
about it.
In light of this learning I hope that
more and more people are informed on this topic because spreading the word and
making this known can only benefit. This documentary shows the perspective from
a different point of view, they believe it is for the food of the baby girl,
but hopefully this way of thinking will change.
Reference
Illich, Ivan. To Hell with Good Intensions. New York: Harper & Row, 1971. Print.
Reference
Illich, Ivan. To Hell with Good Intensions. New York: Harper & Row, 1971. Print.